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A man who got the perfect script! He has a good harvest in his career and family. What did he do right?

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Just finished watching Argentina’s home match against Venezuela, which is Messi’s national team bid farewell to home. When warming up before the game, the legendary star was already filled with tears. After the game, the whole audience shouted his name. He waved his hand to respond, and then wiped the tears that could not help but fall.

The wife's gentle eyes in the stands, three cute sons around her, cheering from hundreds of millions of fans on the green field.

Someone once asked me what kind of life is a perfect life. Perhaps, in Messi, we see the so-called perfect script - a win-win situation for career and family.

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Green Glory: The perfect script for career

Messi's football career can be regarded as a perfect script carefully written. He won the Copa America championship at the age of 34, won the World Cup trophy at the age of 35, and won the eighth Golden Globe Award at the age of 36.

He went from a handsome young man to an uncle with a bearded face, and from a boy who almost ended his football dream due to growth and development problems back then, he grew into a world football legend.

Messi's perfect script is not born, but written through unremitting efforts. After the 2018 World Cup, the 31-year-old Messi seems to be about to bid farewell to his peak period with the regret of national team honors.

But he did not sink, but led the team to win the Copa America at the age of 34 as a core, and then won the World Cup, and won the 8th Golden Globe Award at the age of 36.

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Peak of career: diligence and continuous evolution

Messi's success in career stems from his conscientious and continuous evolution.

From the king of Camp Nou to being spoiled and verballyed by Argentina fans, to leading Argentina to the top.

Work diligently on the court, playing for the team and winning championships, and having countless helpers around him, then carrying the team forward in difficult times. This shy man who is not aware of his words never complains at work and works hard. In the 35-year-old World Cup final, he ran 12.1094 kilometers, including 116 high-speed runnings and 60 sprint runs.

He clearly knows when and how to exert force, and also knows when to trust the young people around him.

It is the 20 years of continuous efforts that have created the king of football that has been admired by countless fans.

His success is not only reflected in his career, but also in his family.

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Bonestones of family: childhood sweethearts and loyalty protection

Compared with many sports stars gossip news, changing women is like changing clothes, Messi's loyalty to love and family is also commendable.

Messi's wife Antonella is his childhood sweetheart. He has never had a scandal or gossip for more than 20 years. Facing a woman besides his wife, he instantly becomes a "silly fool".

Messi once said: "My wife and children are my harbor!" Since he had children, his life has changed completely, and he felt extremely happy when he was with his family. This kind of focus and commitment to the family is extremely rare among modern sports stars.

Neuroscience research has found that when men enter the "guarding mode", the reward center of the brain and the rational center will form a special connection, producing continuous dopamine secretion. This physiological mechanism explains why Messi attaches so much importance to family protection.

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The truth behind the perfect script: Protection and persistence

Messi's perfect script is two words: "Guardian" - the protection of career, the protection of family, and the protection of values.

Freud's unpublished manuscript collected in the archives of the Vienna Psychological Analysis Society wrote: "The highest form of love is to make the boundary between giving and receiving disappear." Messi interpreted the profound meaning of this sentence with his actions.

It is this concept of firmly protecting career and family that has made Messi achieve great success in both career and family.

When someone asks me what my model husband looks like? What does a perfect family look like? I can answer him calmly:

He is an Argentinian... He plays well... He is a good person... He and his wife...

source:7m cn com vn

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